wahhahaa...seems i am da onli one vote for yes... why not kevin.?? i dun believe true friendship just exist among the same sex lorh.. like me..hmm...i can consider got lots of gals' fren la...takkan i wanna woo everyone of them..yeah for sure there are few that after been through certain cases..the relation will get stronger...but still got those which u treat exactly like sister onli marh..:) ganbateh la kevin..>8D
Oh shit, Kevin you should feel so honored because this is my first comment on any blog and *wrists* with all these Chinese words that i wish to understand. I must agree with fai fai *waves*. Having a good buddy of the opposite sex is probable. For instance think about this, you are in love with this girl and there exist another girl in your life that is much similar to her, why you don't have the same affection towards her as the one you loved? If you have a girlfriend or a boyfriend and in the another hand having a close buddy of the opposite sex, would you fall in love or have feelings for that person also? No right, then why not as our close friend? If that is not the case, so many couples in this world would face the same identical problem of unfaithfulness each and every single time another person of the opposite sex come close with their partners. I believe that we should have control and self discipline. Knowing where to draw the margin between us and that friend. Naturally we are attracted to the opposite sex but there is always a border of love and friendship where these 2 feelings differ from each other.
hmmm i think its possible to b juz very good frens among guys n girls if u know a few girls, its impossible for u to like all of em juz like me n emily lo, macam heng dai saja =.= hope dis answers ur question
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嗯。。其实还没投票前，我也一直在问自己，因为我自己也搞不懂。。但最后我也投了男女之间不可能只有纯友谊的存在。。嗯。。我问了几个朋友，他们的但也一样。。但其实也要看情形啦。。其实我也有蛮好的男性朋友，他也有追过我但最后我们也没在一起，虽然我们很久才见一次，可是每次一起出去时感觉就像跟女性朋友出去，因为我可以跟他好到好像跟我的女性好朋友一样好=.= 所以，男女之间也许可能有友谊存在，只是要看个人的想法和态度，最重要是那个人是怎样去对待这样的一件事。
我投了没有纯友谊。虽然你对人可能是纯友谊，可是人家对你可能就不是了，如果男女其中一方有爱情，那就不叫男女之间有纯友谊了吧？简单的说，你不喜欢的人，你不会去接近；会去接近的（会去主动找她/他聊天的），在你心中也肯定有个地位，双方了解后，友谊或许会变成爱情，或者缺裂。友情是个check point吧。
*我个人意见不代表全部人的立场，呵呵...
wahhahaa...seems i am da onli one vote for yes...
why not kevin.?? i dun believe true friendship just exist among the same sex lorh..
like me..hmm...i can consider got lots of gals' fren la...takkan i wanna woo everyone of them..yeah for sure there are few that after been through certain cases..the relation will get stronger...but still got those which u treat exactly like sister onli marh..:)
ganbateh la kevin..>8D
首先我先谢谢大家的意见和投票 XD。我个人觉得，男女之间真的很存在纯友谊。虽然说友谊不能以性别来做差别，可是真的很难吧。对一个女生好，对一个男生好，真的能出自友谊之心吗？或许别人可以，可能是我办不到而已吧。 而且我觉得，这也是导致日久生情的其中一种因素.. 所以 哈， 我的意见就是这样吧。
大家都有不同的想法，没有谁对，也没有谁错，参考参考就好 =）
Oh shit, Kevin you should feel so honored because this is my first comment on any blog and *wrists* with all these Chinese words that i wish to understand.
I must agree with fai fai *waves*. Having a good buddy of the opposite sex is probable. For instance think about this, you are in love with this girl and there exist another girl in your life that is much similar to her, why you don't have the same affection towards her as the one you loved?
If you have a girlfriend or a boyfriend and in the another hand having a close buddy of the opposite sex, would you fall in love or have feelings for that person also? No right, then why not as our close friend? If that is not the case, so many couples in this world would face the same identical problem of unfaithfulness each and every single time another person of the opposite sex come close with their partners.
I believe that we should have control and self discipline. Knowing where to draw the margin between us and that friend. Naturally we are attracted to the opposite sex but there is always a border of love and friendship where these 2 feelings differ from each other.
其实这个问题令人很矛盾的。
我本人是觉得男女之间是很难会有纯友谊的。毕竟感情的东西是很难控制的。尤其是当双方太疏落和了解双方时，爱情的感觉就会悄悄来临的。
不过呢，我是投男女之间是可以有纯友情的。因为我自己也有经历这状况的。当然，大前体是要有一些条件。
我想，如果是分手后的夫妻或情侣，应该可以做到纯友情吧？！毕竟彼此当初是因了解而分开的。
再来，朋友妻也算吧！就像我的一个好朋友的女朋友那样，我们可以时常一起出来吃喝玩乐啊。不过不知道这样算不算啦...！
总结：爱情，该来得时候，它就会出现；不该存在的时候，它就会消失。
hmmm i think its possible to b juz very good frens among guys n girls
if u know a few girls, its impossible for u to like all of em
juz like me n emily lo, macam heng dai saja =.=
hope dis answers ur question
我个人觉得这些这个问题跟人物和时间有很大的关系，可能某些时刻会说绝对只是友情但是很难讲到了某些时候又会有另外的说法。其实我也不很确定的做出决定但是这时刻我还是选择了不可能。好也要看好到什么程度吧，如果时时刻刻提醒自己不要“leng野”那可能真的只有友情那么简单吧！最重要我觉得还是两样东西 人物 时间。
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